“It’s good to have money in the bank, but after you balance your checkbook, be sure to balance your LIFE. Take account of the deposits and withdrawals from your joy, family, and health. Take time today to make any necessary adjustments in case of overdraft.” Misty Lown of More Than Just Great Dancing TM.
These are some very powerful words. Think about it. What are you depositing and what are you withdrawing from all three of those areas. Are they equal??? I am reminded of a message we received at Community Christian Church where our teaching pastor BT Norman talked about money robbing you of your joy. If you let money control your life, it will consume your life. It will rob the joy right out from underneath you if you do not have a healthy relationship with it. I know firsthand this is very hard to do. I have been at a lot of different spectrums when it comes to money and any time I am focused on that and not on God, evil prevails. I always remind myself that you cannot serve both money and God and none of it is mine anyways, it is all His. The best way we have a healthy relationship with money is through a budget. My husband, Brian does all of the nitty gritty work of keeping us on task but it has helped us tremendously and without that we never would have been able to purchase this land and fulfill God’s will. So I tell you it is worth the time and research to come up with a good budget plan that works with your family and help put that joy back into your life.
Speaking of family what deposits and withdrawals are you making from your family. Are you depositing your time, your talents, and your resources into the ones you love or are you taking their time, their talents and their resources? It is a good honest question to ask yourself. For me, I am working on depositing all three things but find it very difficult to do at times and often feel pulled in different directions. This is where I usually need to stop and ask myself, what is the most important thing that I can do to invest in the lives of my family. This always helps bring me back to what is important and sets my priorities in line. As far as withdrawing from family, I feel like with the launch of YPAC we will be asking a lot of our family. We will be asking for their time and their talents to help us build the very best center that we can. It is my hope and my prayer that I can continue to deposit as I withdrawal from them.
When it comes to health, I have overdrafted one too many times. I will admit I am not the best person when it comes to taking care of me. I know what I need to do, but doing it is another issue. I drink way to much diet coke and not enough water, I don’t get a lot of sleep, I probably don’t eat as much as I need to right now while I am nursing our 3 month old, I haven’t stretched in who knows how long therefore, injuring my hip and back and there are times when I can enjoy a good party a little too much. I recently went to the doctor after having not been to one in over 2 years and found out that my vitamin D is extremely low. My number is a 15 and they like to see it at a 40 at least. This was an eye opener that things need to change. Having thought about each area of my life, I realized this is the one that is the worst. So I have made a decision to take control of it little by little. I will start my personal training today at the gym, start to cook a little healthier, and go to bed at a decent time, take my vitamins, drink more water and in general just take care of myself. It is important. God has given me a big job as a mother to my girls and the director of a new business and I need to be healthy in order to do both well.
So take a minute and reflect. Is your “checkbook” of life balanced? In what areas do you need to deposit more so you don’t overdraft? This was a very revealing blog for me.
Thanks to Misty Lown for making me think!